• My Dad as Becky

    What’s involved for someone who struggles with transgender feelings? Restoration begins with the desire to become reconciled with early, unresolved childhood emotional wounds; events in early developmental years which threatened or undermined a person’s feelings of security, peace, warmth, … Continue Reading…

    My Dad as Becky
  • My Dad as a Man

    Thinking about a sex change? Don’t do it! That is the advice I wish someone would have given me. I had the sex change. I “pass” fine, my career is good but you cannot imagine the number of times I’ve wished I could go back and see if there was another way. Despite following all the rules and being … Continue Reading…

    My Dad as a Man
  • Secrets I knew…but did not share

    What was your biggest concern when you were nine years old? Was it trying to memorize your multiplication facts? Was it that the school cafeteria might serve your least favorite vegetable at lunch? Perhaps it was something more serious; perhaps your parents were talking of getting divorced. My … Continue Reading…

    Secrets I knew…but did not share

New Book – Understanding Gender Confusion


Cross-dressing and Christianity: A REAL Man’s Struggle

by Randall Wayne This page is for Christian men and their families to get another perspective on the issue of cross-dressing. If you are not a Christian, this page will probably not make much sense and could be taken to be offensive, although that is not my heart in writing this. If you are a Christian man looking for answers in how to deal with cross-dressing, or a concerned spouse or family member of a male to female cross-dresser, I invite you to read further and keep an open mind. So, you have been warned. Read More

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Prayer- Your Prayers for this ministry IS very important. We are touching lives that have been spiritually and emotionally changed by the gender identity issue. We work towards bringing Gods grace, love and truth to many. Donations - With your financial support, Help 4 Families, is able to work with other outreach/churches and counseling programs in order to assist families and individuals with their needs. Donations also helps us to offer services and resources to those who request resources and those who visit our website. Read More